…hings like employment, money, healthcare, and retirement, which people can simply give each other.” Narcissism so toxic that Americans almost never, ever ev…hings like employment, money, healthcare, and retirement, which people can simply give each other.” Narcissism so toxic that Americans almost never, ever even bother to understand why if you cross an invisible line into Canada, life is suddenly vastly better, happier, longer-lived, richer, saner, stabler.